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Women Scaring Men Off Sex

A new study shows that pushy women demanding earth-shattering sex, multiple orgasms, and marathon love-making sessions are causing men to be scared off from having sex. How could this be possible?

Professor Zbigniew Izdebski, a Polish sex therapist, found that a staggering one third of men are too frightened to have sex because of unrealistic expectations in the bedroom. He blames the phenomenon on women’s magazines. He says, "Men feel they are judged by their women, who have been educated by magazines and know exactly how long foreplay should last, when to check the moistness of their vagina, the hardness of their nipples, and body color."

It seems modern men are so worried about making their other half reach orgasm, that they forget to enjoy sex. Izdebski says, "The whole methodology of the women's climax is seen by men as something similar to a difficult intelligence test. Instead of enjoying the intercourse, men instead try to remember the 'right' routine.” This results in men avoiding sex and using the old “headache” excuse.

Have you ever avoided sex for this reason? Do you think men face to much expectations in the bedroom or is this a load of B.S.?

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    1. paulyboy99 Posted on Jun 18 '09 at 12:30 PM

    I have been with my wife for nine years and I never avoided sex I¿m lucky if she can last. Like all men I tend to get winded quick but good imagination helps a lot in foreplay if you think its routine then use yall's imaginations.

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    2. mikeyboy55 Posted on Jun 18 '09 at 6:31 PM

    Paulyboy99 is right. The key to good sex is imagination, even sexy talk with compliments can help a lovemaking session go a long way.

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    3. yelirekim Posted on Jun 19 '09 at 12:20 AM

    I imagine that if you looked at different age groups here you would see drastically different results, I don't think younger men ever pass up on sex with their partner.

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    4. rebelheart69 Posted on Jun 21 '09 at 2:19 PM

    I'm 47 and I can outlast any woman I've ever met. Young guys don't turn down sex because they are the " One, Two, I'm thru" crew. They don't care if the woman gets off, it's all about them. Me, I love to watch a womans face when she gets off. I gave my date a couple of nights ago 4 orgasms before I came and was ready for another round in less than 20 minutes. Imagination does have alot to do with it. As well as technique and the level of excitement you are able to achieve. I don,t use viagra or any other enhancement drugs either. Although there is a european drug called "The Ropes" which can cause a man to achieve multiple orgasms also. If you really are into good sex. Study and learn all the information you can. Next time you pick-up a porn magazine try reading the articles instead off whacking off to the pictures you might learn something. This is why I tend to date younger women because they are greatful and they can keep up better than the older women who tend to quit on you after they have one orgasm.

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    5. JosephP1987 Posted on Jun 22 '09 at 12:10 PM

    To add to this the problem might not be that the dude can't make his other reach an orgasm... or even come out of the same routine or position becuase of his significant other!

    In a very personal scenario I went threw, My girlfriend actually was suffering from deppression and she didnt really know. She caught it after suffering for 2 years. And we were having sex every OTHER month.. she wasnt healthy at all.. Anything would bother, she would blame the fact that I was not good enough and I didnt know how to please her. As soon as she started to get treated.... well... we have been having amazing sex on a daily basis. And it is never boring.. So the lesson is that think outside the picture ask if she is ok, if she feels depprived of anything.. if u notice she might need help DO IT! it could save your relationship big time!

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    6. HeadTater Posted on Jun 23 '09 at 8:20 PM

    Wait, so men are now suffering esteem issues because of women's magazines? Kinda bitter sweet. On one hand, those women's libbers can't bitch about Playboy messing with women's self esteem. However, on the other hand, unrealistic expectations abound. Who knows, maybe the Poles, in addition to being stupid electricians that smell funny, are just plain old pussies.

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    7. Terencedavis Posted on Aug 9 '09 at 9:57 AM

    This is some good information that I will bare in mind.

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