Parents don't expect to outlive their children. Unfortunately, tragedy has literally hit home for fêted music mogul, Andre “Dr. Dre” Young. My heart goes out to the broken-hearted family of the deceased, who are excruciatingly suffering.
Right now, Dr. Dre is painfully dealing with the unfortunate loss of his son. The grieving process is unbearable and no amount of words could comfort such bereavement. As a parent, you will never have any greater pain in your life than losing your own child. Moreover, when you suffer through such a heightened emotional time of sadness and melancholy, you undoubtedly question God. I think during such severe and grueling times like these, many people become enraged and angry with God – feeling betrayed and even blasphemous toward Him. We are never really healed from such complete devastation. Forgive us Father for we know not what we do…
Many people say “Rest in Peace” to the departed; but it is the living that cannot seem to come to a peaceful rest. Mothers and Fathers who have suffered the loss of a child endure many sleepless nights of brutal insomnia, confused regrets, non-stop questions of ‘what-ifs,’ tears…and even shame. How can a parent really contend with the toughest loss of their life? The guilt, oh the unbearable guilt…
Right now, I am furious beyond belief over what I have been reading in the aftermath of this delicate and tragic event. And I have read so many foul statements from people -- so-called “fans” of Dr. Dre -- who have absolutely no sympathy or respect for his situation. Repeatedly, I have read statements like “Detox isn’t coming out now” “Detox this” and “Detox that” --- are you kidding me? This is a parent’s worst nightmare. Are we really this much of a Godless society? Have we lost our damn morals? What have we become? There are many more important things in the world than music. Forgive us Father for we know not what we do…
I would like to send a personal message to Andre Young, the mourning father: Forget the music, ignore all the negative talk, focus on your family and press deeper into God. A true Father and son moment is when we spend time alone with our Creator. I have no idea what kind of life your son lived -- what his beliefs were, his convictions -- but thankfully, we serve a God of extreme mercy and unconditional love. Thank you Father!
It takes a truly great man to be able to view this life, and all its unfortunate circumstances, from a perspective outside of our emotional anguish. Our unique calling comes from God’s own voice, and we are constantly being both tested and blessed everyday. Our divine faith will bring us to our knees, and we are held accountable to our distinctive purpose. Mr. Young, while the whole world is watching your every move, you have this miraculous opportunity to be an honorable witness who remains strong, obedient and righteous during this heartbreaking tragedy – a true example of loyalty and faith. Who you are internally is how you are defined…and shows what a man is made of. Stand tall, because no matter what happens, all things work together for good for those who love the Lord. You are a pillar of strength and grace, a good and faithful servant. Sleep well child, rest in His gentle peace.
---Jonathan Hay, www.myspace.com/jonathanhay
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